दिल तो अभी भी जवानी लिए हैं,
कमर ही बस झुकी है रानी।
रौशनी निगाहों की कम हुई है,
साँसे तो आज भी है तूफानी।
परमीत सिंह धुरंधर
Month: January 2015
तन्हाई
बदलते वक्त ने रोना सीखा दिया,
रोते वक्त ने बदलना सीखा दिया।
और इस कदर तन्हाई है मेरे साथ दोस्तों,
की अंधेरों ने हर दिया बुझा दिया।
परमीत सिंह धुरंधर
Probability of secularism
You are alone in a jungle and suddenly you see a girl who has similar condition like you. You approach her by thinking to find some solution together to get out of this problem. When both of you are chatting and knowing each other, the rain starts and suddenly there is a thunderbolt in the sky.
Case1: What is the probability that the girl will kiss you?
There is a new state created in India. Hindus are as minority.
Case2: What is the probability that majority will accept Hindu as CM?
Which case has a higher probability of occurrence?
Parmit Kumar Singh
Double Standard of Bollywood
It is good that Raj Kumar Hirani made a movie “PK” that shows the problems with Hindu religion. However, I don’t understand why religion is so important for the moviemakers when there are other social issues. There are several well-known incidents that could have shown by movies. But, it needs courage, which the Bollywood lacks.
Vidhu Vinod Chopra as a Kashmiri Pandit made a film “Mission Kashmir” to show the problem of Kashmir. He told at that time he still felt close to Kashmir. Now, he made a movie “PK” that shows that the Hindu hate other religions. This suggests that there is no problem in Kashmir and all problems were created by Kashmiri Pandit who hates other religion. Thus, the Hindu in the movie “PK” are the Kashmiri Pandit.
Sanjay Khan beat long back Jeenat Aman in a party at the Taj hotel, Mumbai. No one tried to save her and she lost her eye permanently. However she never lodged any complain at the police station. I am still waiting for the movie when Hirani will show the treatment Bollywood does with their actress.
Aamir Khan believes in freedom of women. However, when it comes to decide the religion of his children, his wife has no power to decide.
Indian girls especially our actress always praise our brave army men but they choose wealthy, famous foreigners and businessmen for their marriage. Neena Gupta, the famous actress, chose sir Vivian Richards, for her motherhood. I have never seen any Indian actress who got married with an army man.
Hope to see at least one movie or one episode in the “Satyamev Jayte” on these topics.
Parmit Kumar Singh
Two mistakes of my life
- When there was no Skype and STD/ISD booth was popular, I used to call my father everyday. It was during my graduation, 19998-2002. On such evening, I paid 500 by borrowing some money from my friend who was with me at that time. My friend told to everyone, and people started advising me to save money. They kept asking me why I was wasting money. Today, there is Skype, Hangout and money, however, my father, my biggest strength, is no more.
- Whenever my girlfriend used to ask for the movies, I took her for dinner or lunch. Finally, after the breakup, she told the reason that I was always trying to save money by avoiding movies. Now, I am making the dinner and go to watch movies as she, my greatest weakness, is not with me.
Parmit Kumar Singh
Marriage and Heaven
We are in 2015 and every one is busy to store the memories of 2014. For me there is only one memory, when my friends kept telling, “Marriage is written in the heaven.” This made me to think why marriages are written in the heaven. If this is correct then what about Muslims and marriages in other religions.
If marriages are written in the heaven, there are no wives for the people who go to the hell or who takes birth from the hell directly. Thus, the unmarried people in this world are from the hell, at least in the Hindu religion. So wives are awards for people who goes to heaven due to good work (Karma) in their past life. This also suggests that women never go into the hell. The alternative hypothesis is that they can choose a guy from the haven since the writing materials and the writers are from heaven. So, God and His workers are partial for the heaven and that’s the reason people keep telling that do good work here in this world. Thus, even if women are in the hell, they choose a guy from the heaven to have a good life there and here. A guy with multiple marriages means he was awarded multiple times or many women chose him in the heaven. It might be that the writer, who writes these marriages, makes mistake by thinking him as unmarried.
However, Nehru tried to stop these heaven-written marriages as he was from the rival group of God. He was not successful in his attempt to replace Lord Indra in the heaven. His attempts to provoke people in the hell were also not successful. Thus, he tried to take the revenge from God by stopping the heaven-written marriages on the earth, at least in Hindu as his fight was with Hindu God who refused him to make Indra. That’s the reason extra martial relations; pre-martial sex and divorce rate has increased in India, especially amongst Hindu couples, as we cannot change one’s Karma. In other words, Nehru is responsible for all these.
Moreover, multiple marriages of a single guy suggest that women population in the heaven is less than men. The exact reason is not known but there are several reasons:
- More life period of women than men on the earth. So there are few women die per year than man.
- Hindu kills own daughters after birth. This creates a big problem in the traffic to the heaven and also in marriage writings. The ongoing research focus on to make girls into women by drugs, as “Baal-Vivah” is not happening on the earth, so God told them not to waste time in such marriage writings.
- It might be that there is exchange of women into the different religious heaven. Thus, God might help each other depending which side needs them, suggesting Gods from different religion cooperates irrespective of their followers here.
- Women from earth are more skillful and beautiful than the permanent beauties (Apsara e.g., Menka) in the heaven. Therefore, more and more women are marrying to them to stay permanently in the heaven. It is similar to Indian girls like to marry more and more to American guy just to settle in USA.
Further, people from the hell are not willing to marry. There are many program run by the heaven to attract them. However, they are not interested in marriage and believe that marriage is just waste. These people spent their life to improve society level and trying to make earth more like the heaven. So men from the hell are more social and successful, examples of such people are Swami Vicekananda, Narendra Modi. On the other side, men from the heaven are more interested in women, relationship and luxury. They want society to be more open for women so that they can enjoy more.
People involved in writing in heaven are spending more attention than earlier as the inter-religion marriages; inter-countries marriages have increased in recent time.
Parmit Kumar Singh
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